Authobiography of Ma. Denniesy Espeso (an excerpt)

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Autobiography of Ma. Denniesy B. Espeso

(An Excerpt)

Once upon a time, when I was shy and fairly introverted, reading and writing were tools at my disposal to express my creativity and the extrovert that yearned inside. Now, with years gone past and the extroverted butterfly thus being in the open, I have lost, as it seems the desire to either read or write.

Determined, energetic and diligent—these are three words I would use to describe myself. I was born on a warm, sunny day in December 03, 1993 in Sta. Cruz Street, Vinzons Camarines Norte. My parents gave me an exotic name “Denniesy”. I really like my name because this is the combination of my mothers and fathers name and surely this name came from there heart. Some of my friends call me “Ruffa”, this is my nickname. I really love to eat but I’m to slim. I’m just simple, happy high school students girl. Like ordinary teenagers, I hang out with my friends sometimes. I can be fun at times irritable, naughty, and sensible. I enjoy reading books and collecting accessories. I also love some guy stuffs. Making new friends always amaze me, but I’m kind a picky when it comes of choosing friends. I’m the typical one who you can talk to easily. I understand in times of needs, you surely can lean on me. In my youth it seemed that books, love songs and stories were a great way to pass the time.

My parents are Daisy Espeso and Daniel Espeso. My parents are loving and caring. When I as weak they are the one who give me strength. They also wipe my tears when if falls with handkerchief. They are the one who sent me on school and give my needs for my daily living. I know that they would do anything for us to be happy and I really love them. They have three siblings. King Edward B. Espeso, Daniel B. Espeso Jr. and I. My two brother and I, sometimes like cats and dogs but we love, respect and care with each other. My brother King is older than me. He is a free-spoken and broad-minded person. He believes in everything especially to the existence of God. He hate people who doesn’t have sense-of-humor, non-ethics, and very shallow, especially the superficial ones. My Brother name Daniel is 12 years old. He is optimistic but can be also pessimist at the same time. Art is his passion. He loves nature and discovering new things. He likes humors a lot. He doesn’t make things complicated. I’ve got a neat and cool family, they’re my strength, and I love them most! I continually thank God for having a happy family and wonderful life.

Life to me means friends and family who you can trust and who trusts you. I am pretty much on the happy side of life, but like all teens I do I have my “days of.” That means I do have some sad days or depressed days. When I was sad I just think for a happy moments that make my mood change. The best moment in my life was my childhood. When I was nine I used to visit my grandma every Sunday afternoons. There I played with my cousins until we got tired. Our favourite games were hide and seek and tag. After, all my family used to eat out, especially pizza or French fries with sausages. On Saturday afternoons I used to skate and ride bicycles with my cousins in parks. In Christmas, my family exchanged gifts and participated in speech contests which were sponsored by one of my uncles, Delfin I really enjoyed those special moments which are unforgettable. One of my hobbies is travelling. My first trip was when I was eleven, all my family travelled by car to Cipucot, where you can see the beauty of nature and some beautiful types of scenery. It was an amazing experience, one day travelling with the whole family. So far, I have visited some places such as; Manila, Legaspi, Batangas, andNaga. I like to meet people, learn languages, try food,and know lifestyles in other words and culture. Now, I’m planning to spend Vacation in Hong Kong someday.

How do I see myself in fifteen years? I think I will probably be living in America. I will be quite comfortable with my living situation, meaning that I will be married to a guy who has a characteristic of having pointed nose, tall, sweet, caring, handsome, vivid he has baby blue eyes and blond hair. Happy with a small family, two children and also, I see myself as a teacher trainer working for a language institute. And will be working as an English teacher for a private language institute. I would like to study more and more about teaching and learning a language in order to help my student’s everyday. We will have been together for many years and will be happy together and forever.

**BREAKiNG UP && MOViNG ON :(

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Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks? Here we list eight essential things everybody must do in the early days of a break up to let the healing begin.

  1. Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.
  2. Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk about the situation but you need to let out all your feelings and thoughts or they may come back to bite you later.
  3. Cry if you want to. It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex. You don’t want your tears to be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back.
  4. Let go of mementos. Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of the relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will be out of mind until you are able to remember the relationship without longing for it to still be going strong.
  5. Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things?
  6. Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.
  7. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.
  8. Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.

Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be done. Just stick to the game plan outlined above and before you know it you’ll be just fine. Good luck!